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To my grandmother~ By Julia Hones

8/7/2014

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You were born in 1915
when the internet and television did not exist,
a time when single pregnant women
were a disgrace
and you had to bind to
the rules of your sex.

In your childhood
you watched your parents
baking bread,
cultivating potatoes and corn,
bearing the storms of life.

You migrated with your siblings 
at an early age, 
the burden of being an immigrant 
was your crown,
your accent faded away
and you married a nice, hard-working
gentleman.

There was no time for anything,
you told me;
Like a thoughtless ant 
you worked from Monday to Monday
sewing the bed sheets where people
would have night dreams;
Efficiency was your jewel,
work your reason to be alive.

You filled hours with cakes and pies,
you scrubbed floors,
making them sparkle for 
everyone.
But on Sundays, once retired,
when you played cards with your friends,
I felt empty.

Your love might have been bigger
than your working frenzy to serve others
for I missed you,
even though you buried 
your spirit under scrumptious food
and shining floors.

Now, at age ninety-eight,
dementia swallowing your soul,
bedridden, with brittle bones,
you smile at me,
you tell me that 
there was no time for anything.
You had to sew from morning till night,
and then you made dinner.

My grandfather stayed up late
devouring books,
a bookworm—just like me—and
there was no time to make love.


Author Bio:
Julia Hones is a creative spirit, an inquisitive mind, a poet, a writer and everything in-between. Her poems and stories have been published in an array of literary magazines and anthologies such as The Mindful Word, The Artistic Muse, Gadfly Online, TRIVIA: Voices of Feminism, The Voices Project, Black Mirror Magazine, Coffee Shop Poems, The Greensilk Journal, Epiphany Magazine, Vox Poetica, "You, Me & a Bit of We" Anthology and others. She is the poetry editor of Southern Pacific Review and runs a literary blog.http://juliahoneswritinglife.blogspot.com




3 Comments
Patsy link
8/7/2014 07:04:48 am

So much has changed in such a short space of time, hasn't it?

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Susan Kane link
8/8/2014 04:27:49 am

My grandmother's photo sits on my desk where I can see it while I write. Our grandmothers help write the lines of our own lives.

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Madilyn (jerseylil) link
8/8/2014 01:18:22 pm

Julia, your poem is very heartfelt, reflecting a slice of your grandmother’s life, the difficulties and hard choices of another era, and the feelings of a granddaughter observing all this with love and an understandable longing for more of her time. So personal yet so relatable. Beautifully written!

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